How do we protect young people online?
The news yesterday of a man who posed as Justin Bieber online and subsequently charged with more than 900 child sex-related crimes in Australia, raises significant concerns on how to protect children online. Here we give some advice for parents and young people.
Advice for parents
Have an open and honest conversation
Have ongoing, open and honest conversations with your children about their use of the internet. If your children have heard this news story then you can use this as a conversation starter to encourage your child to think critically about their online friends. It’s important that you are there to listen and help your children with any problems they may face online, even though they may be difficult conversations to have. Try these conversation starters to help you talk about online safety with your family.
Make your children aware
It’s important to make sure your children are aware that not everyone they speak to online may be telling the truth. Even though someone may claim to be their favourite celebrity it may not be true. It’s important that they firstly look for a verified tick on an account, these can be seen on Twitter and Facebook as little blue icons next to a person’s name. These ticks or icons are an assurance by the service that the account is a genuine one for that celebrity.
Know how to report
If your child has been contacted by an adult online and you are suspicious about the nature of this contact then it’s important to report it immediately. Reports can be made to CEOP Command. Child sexual abuse images can also be reported to the Internet Watch Foundation.
Other useful links
- How to report impersonation on social networks
- Hot topic for parents about social networking
- Hot topic on Online Grooming
For young people
Be careful of who you trust online
Is the person who you are talking to who they say they are? Checking to see if an account is verified is a great way to do this. Accounts for celebrities and well-known people are shown by a little blue symbol next to their name on Twitter and a verified button on Facebook.
People online are still strangers
Although you may talk to someone a lot online it’s important to remember that, if you only know them online, they are a stranger. This is also true even if they are a celebrity and you think you know a lot about them.
It’s never too late to tell someone
Remember that if anyone makes you uncomfortable online or is asking you to do something that you don’t want to then say no and block or report that person. It’s also really important to tell someone whether that is a trusted adult or by reporting them to the police. These reports will be taken seriously. Y
Look out for your friends
If a friend ever tells you about somebody or something online that has worried them, be a good friend and support them. Part of supporting them is to make sure you tell a trusted adult about what has happened, even if you think it isn’t a big deal. That way, your friend can get the help and support they need if something does go wrong.
Other useful links